Whether you’re single, married, seeing someone casually, in a relationship, divorced, widowed, in a open-door relationship with the fridge…you deserve to treat yourself for Christmas.
It doesn’t matter if you have a long list of gift suggestions that you’ve handed out to your family, or if you thrive on buying the best presents for your loved ones instead…everyone deserves to also take time during the festive season to celebrate THEMSELVES.
If you’re knee deep in giving, that’s awesome. Give something back to yourself too. I’m a big fan of self love, gratitude, of self-kindness and of neglected pampering ‘me time’ that most women shun in favour of doing something proactive, or putting others’ needs above their own.
Therefore, here is my list of items that you may indeed decide you totally deserve:
Coco & Eve Like A Virgin Super Nourishing Coconut & Fig Hair Masque And Tangle Tamer Set, $65 from Sephora
Honestly, the best conditioning product I have ever put on my hair. Recommended by a friend when I went back to green and my hair was damaged…this product is SO good I then purchased one for my mum and sister. My other friend then bought herself one, and then bought her friend one too. It’s an entire Coco & Eve chain reaction, right here. It is the best gift you can give your tresses, I promise you. It isn’t the cheapest item but you only need a small amount with every application, and I only use it once a week or once every two weeks. It has absolutely saved my bleached damaged hair.
SEE BY CHLOÉ Hana mini textured-leather and suede shoulder bag, US$251.44 from Net-a-Porter
No, it does not matter how many bags you already have. Yes, you can always have more. Yes, Chloe is worth the splurge. No, there is no guilt attached to this designer purchase! The saddle silhouette and braided O-ring on See by Chloé’s ‘Hana’ bag are a callback to the label’s equestrian heritage. Made from textured-leather and soft suede, this style has an internal card slot and is compact enough to keep your everyday essentials organized.
Hailey Pleated Dobby Dot Camisole Dress, $56.90 from Love, Bonito
It’s beautiful, but I already have too many stunning dresses…said no woman ever.
Wild Freesia & Lime Room Diffuser, $79 from Temple Candles
I have two indoor cats and I am always aware of coming home or having guests that get greeted with a less-than-nice smell. But since I purchased this diffuser, yes this exact scent, from Temple Candles I am constantly in love with how my condo smells. Like the exhilarating smell of summer air, this scent has delicately blended fragrance notes of wild freesia, kaffir lime, with just a hint of lavender. Make your home the best possible space with some delightful interior scents.
Textured Stiletto Heel Ankle Boots, $75.90 from Charles & Keith
No better time to treat yourself to a new pair of ankle boots than the dreaded wet season (will the rain ever end?). Whether you’re travelling afar for Christmas or staying at home in Singapore, these heeled ankle boots will be a welcomed addition to your shoe closet.
Saint Laurent Opyum double-wrap bracelet, US$378 from Farfetch
Okay firstly, classics will never go out of style and are thus a worthy investment any time of the year. You can buy this once and wear forever (Disclosure, not sure any of us will be around forever – do not take my words literally). Secondly – do you ever need a reason to splurge on a designer jewellery item? No, you do not. Go ahead and add this bad boy to your basket.
Laurie Chair with Gold Legs (Green), $109 from Forty Two
You don’t always need to lather on expensive skin care products to feel you’ve pampered yourself. It can also extend to your exterior surroundings. Making yourself a warm, happy and loving home is just as important as a spa treatment or facial. Of course furniture is completely subjective and luckily Forty Two has a huge variety of pieces to suit all needs. I adore rich bold colours and gold / copper finishings, so love this chair addition to add more seating to my lounge area.
Navy Crystal Rigid Bracelet, $63 from Bimba Y Lola
As if you ever need a reason to splash some cash at Bimba Y Lola? Well I can actually give you an extra reason – this bracelet is currently sitting pretty at 40% off the original price, along with many other items in their festive sale.
Benefit Cosmetics Roller Lash Mascara – Black, $44 from Sephora
After finding this mascara, all other wands are that of a past memory. This IS the best mascara I have ever used, without question. Delivering long, voluminous lashes, this mascara categorically does not clump, flake or drop below the lid (at all). If you don’t do lash extensions and still want long but natural lashes – gift yourself this product and never look back.
Tender and Dangerous Black and silver embroidered tulle gloves, US$255 from Farfetch
Granted, not the most practical item, but absolutely stunning. And who wants practical all the time anyway? These gloves will make you feel like a debutante, a haute bohemian, a new-age duchess. Just try not to damage them on your first night out, yeah?
Chain Detail Bucket Bag, $34 from Pomelo
Buy now, rock in 2020 spring. Sorted!