Sex toys aren’t just for vaginas. Sex toys for people with penises are just starting to take off and gain popularity. Yep, that’s right, you don’t have to be stuck with the same old wank and tissue routine or a full session of missionary. There’s a whole world of pleasure out there, you just have to be brave enough to dip a toe in.
So with that in mind, let’s take a little walk through the different types of sex toys for penises that are out there.
Anal beads
As you’ll soon find out from reading, a number of male sex toys are all aimed around the booty. That’s because men have something called a P-spot, or their prostate.
The P-spot lives just inside your rectum, it’s walnut-shaped and feels rough like one, too. You can find it about six to eight centimetres inside your rectum away from your tailbone, so towards your front.
Anal beads are a great way to gently ease yourself into anal play, something that a lot of men are – at least at first – a little adverse to. They’re beads on a string that go up gradually in size. If you’re going to give them a go, use them during masturbation to heighten the sensations and feelings that are already going on. Do NOT forget lube, because you’re going to need plenty of it. And start slowly.
Butt plug
On the bum again, a butt plug is designed to stimulate the men’s prostate. They’re tapered for easy insertion and flare towards the bottom. Unlike anal beads, butt plugs are designed to be inserted during sex or masturbation and left there for the duration or until you’re ready to remove.
If you’re going to give one a go, make sure you go slow, relax and use plenty of lube. Try it during a masturbation session; as you masturbate it’ll gently move to hit your P-spot. Have a bath to relax, lube up the toy and your bum and slow insert it. Stop straight away if you feel any pain or discomfort.
Cock ring
Cock rings are one of the most popular sex toys in the world, as they’re perfect for couples. They’re usually designed to be worn during sex, and sit at the base of the penis, so towards your body. They work by stopping blood from flowing back down the penis which can make erections feel harder and longer, and it may also make penetrative sex last longer.
There are a few different types of cock rings. Some are simply just thick silicone rings that stretch around the penis and sit at the base, these are good for masturbation, too.
Vibrating cock rings are ones that are popular with couples, particularly those couples who have a penis and vulva. These come with a built in mini vibrator that can sit against a clitoris and vibrate during penetrative sex for a second source of stimulation.
Masturbation sleeve
Strokers. Sex sleeves. Pocket pussies… Masturbation sleeves have a few nicknames floating around. You can find masturbation sleeves for both penises and vulvas – perfect for trans men – but basically they are a textured sleeve. They come in all shapes, sizes and textures. If you’ve been interested in sex toys for a while, you may have heard of the Fleshlight which features a hard outer shell and a soft and squishy inside. There are even ones that can be synced with computer software for virtual reality porn.
These can be used alone for solo masturbation or with a partner for mutual masturbation. When you’re a real pro, why not combine using a sleeve and anal beads for ultimate pleasure?
Prostate massager
This vibrator-like device is designed to send vibrations to your P-spot and stimulate it to orgasm. Yes, it is possible for you to have an orgasm by stimulating this magic little spot. It’s got a curved design because it needs to be able to curve back towards your stomach when inserted so that it can stimulate the P-spot, so don’t be put off by its design.
If you’re taking this toy for a test drive, be sure to relax and use plenty of lube. You can never have too much lube.
And there you have it! That’s a quick overview of the main sex toys for people with penises. Happy playing!
